I am not a male basher by far. I also don’t agree with some of the things that women do. But there is a difference in Men and dudes just a there is a difference between women and chicks.
Dudes think that what their favorite rapper says is Gods word. Men take the words that God says about women to heart.
Chicks love a man that is in the spot light with their fame and fortune. Women know how to be all of the spot light, fame and fortune her man needs.
Dudes need a million groupies to validate their manhood. A man wants be validated by being able to keep one woman happy for a million years.
Chicks believe in the motto if you got it flaunt it and they rarely leave much to the imagination. Woman show off their hearts and souls instead of their booties.
Dudes allow their ego to dictate the way that they live. Men control their ego, they are not controlled by their ego.
Chicks have no problem stepping on the back of others to reach for the things they want. To a woman pulling others up when the world has passed them by is what they define as success.
Dudes make excuses for their mistakes and more than likely blame women for their wrong doing. Men own up to their past, stands up in their present and works towards their future.
Chicks play the victim blaming everyone for their issues, constantly pointing the finger, yet never focusing on the fingers pointing back at them. A woman doesn’t have time to play the blame game. She knows when she’s wrong… Apologizes, forgives, forgets and keeps it moving to build a better her.
A dude talks a good game and they talk so loud to assure that they heard by EVERYONE. A man does not have to prove his point especially at the top of his lungs. He asks God for forgiveness and moves on.
Chicks sit back and wait for someone to save them. Women get knocked down, get up, dust themselves off and goes right back to it.
Dudes flash their money and then get confused when all they attract is gold diggers. Men flash their emotions and their hearts which is the reason why they love so strong.
Chicks say they want to be loved but tend to have love confused with lust. Women gets their satisfaction from those “little things”.
Dudes spend a their time searching for a chick to sleep with. A man just wants to find that one woman to awake up to for forever.
Chicks don’t have a problem going through Mr. Wrong after Mr. Wrong as long as they’re getting something out of the deal. Women would rather be alone until Mr. Just Right For Me shows up and shows out.
I believe that there are some good… No great… No amazing men out here. And a lot of times they catch the heat for the raggedy dudes perpetrating to be real men. I also know for a fact there are women out here who try over and over again not to blame every man for what the last dude did to them. There are chicks out here playing the victim which make men think that all women want something from them. We real men and women need to focus and pay close attention to the things that define the difference.